Its hard to tell ourselves that all the bad stuff that happens isn’t always our fault. Its hard to actually Listen to ”this voice” and understand it and turn the page. But you are yourself, if you are 100% honest with yourself, if you understand that you have weakness (because everyone is human after all.. even the 300 pound guy in the gym.) , you will get to know yourself deeper, and by knowing yourself better you get to understand why you’re depressed. These experiences needs to happen, because if nothing happens in your life (good and bad experience), you will never get to know yourself. Failure always brings success.